star's Boundaries !

there have been certain things going on with people in general that i just have not been comfortable with so i feel the need to set some boundaries.

• my socials !!

name: i'm not comfortable with random chatters calling me by my real name. if a creator i'm friends with calls me my name on stream, that does not give permission for chat to use it as well. i'm specific with who can use my real name and it's exclusive to my friends.

personal: under no circumstances will i be okay with anyone searching for any personal information or spreading it if i have purposefully kept it private or haven't explicitly said it.

discord friend requests: please don't send me friend requests unless i ask.

parasocial behavior: it makes me really uncomfortable when people try to befriend me or act like they know me personally. just because i like/comment on one of your videos, talk to you in my discord server, or answer you in chat doesn't mean i wants to become friends. if it's obvious you're joking that is a whole different situation (e.g. this is my very close and personal friend starstrucx)

discord unfriending: if i have friended you before and i unfriend you after that, do not take it personally, this kind of goes with the whole parasocial behavior thing.

mental involvement: please don't try to involve me directly in personal issues you may have (e.g. trauma dumping). if i invite you to talk about it, that's one thing, but just talking about it without me wanting to be in it once again puts me in an uncomfortable position. this once again goes with the whole parasocial thing.

comparison: please don't compare my growth with other streamers/creators, it makes me very uncomfortable.

drama: do not bring up other creators attempting to stir up drama. ESPECIALLY if it's someone that i had collabed with and talked about a lot prior and don't as much anymore. these are usually private situations that i don't want to publically talk about.

blocking: i will easily block you at anytime if you cross any boundaries or make me uncomfortable at all.